Dr. Ramani Durvasula

Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a Psychologist in private practice in Santa Monica and a Professor of Psychology at California State University in Los Angeles.

She received her B.S. in Psychology from the University of Connecticut and her MA and Ph.D. degrees in Clinical Psychology at UCLA. She is the go-to media expert for a multitude of mental health topics – most notably: narcissism. She has also authored multiple books, including Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship With a Narcissist.

The focus of Dr. Ramani’s clinical, academic and consultative work is the etiology and impact of narcissism and high-conflict, entitled, antagonistic personality styles on human relationships, mental health, and societal expectations.

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Books From Dr. Ramani Durvasula

Best Selling

It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People

It’s not always easy to tell when you’re dealing with a narcissistic person. One day they draw you in with their charm and charisma, the next they gaslight you, wreck your self-esteem, and leave you wondering, What should I have done differently? As Dr. Ramani explains in It’s Not You, the answer is: absolutely nothing.

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You Are WHY You Eat

You Are WHY You Eat teaches readers to take back control in their lives. Dr. Ramani takes an iconoclastic, brave, edgy, and witty approach to self-help. She teaches you to unearth that inner voice, and let it be heard.

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"Don't You Know Who I Am?"

“Don’t you know who I am?” has become the mantra of the famous and infamous, the entitled and the insecure. It’s the tagline of the modern narcissist. For those who need actionable insight and advice on how to handle a narcissist, this book is the perfect companion to the many MedCircle series on the topic.

Best Selling

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Do you feel like you are talking and talking, and your partner is never listening? Do you feel like you keep saying the same thing over and over again?

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